Sometimes break up or the loss of the loved one feels so painful that it sucks the life out of us. It leaves us hurt, vulnerable and feeling completely lost. And in times like this, a rebound relationship is the most normal thing to happen to most of us. The need to feel loved and appreciated is never as high as when you have lost someone.

It is very easy to get into a relationship when you are trying to heal your broken heart. You need a shoulder to cry on and that guy or girl is so nice to you. But in this exposed state of emotions it becomes difficult to differentiate between a sympathetic care and true love.

The person all of a sudden feels the most perfect person and knowing unknowingly we start comparing the past lover with this one. But is it the right thing to do? Here are some signs to show that this rebound love is leading the way to a future disaster.

Suddenly Everything Seems Picture Perfect

You have fallen madly, deeply and completely in love and now everything around you is perfect. Your job no more sucks, your bills are no more mounting high and your one room flat seems like a palace. If this rosy fantasyland lasts for a short time then it is ok and if it seems that it is forever and ever then please come out of your dream world.

He/She Is Just The Opposite Of Your Lover

You have found the person who is the just the opposite of your Ex. This person can laugh with you, understands you, and has everything that your Ex simply failed to believe in. Well here is a reality check; no person is perfect. Finding the qualities that your Ex didn’t have, has blinded you to the flaws of this person. So open your mind and eyes and think twice before jumping into this rebound love relationship.

You Don’t Seem to be Around

You don’t seem to be returning to your roots. After your break up you seemed lost and now in the new love relationship, you seem more lost. The different phases in the relationship pre-occupies us but if we are unable to come back to our friends and family soon, then it is a problem. So don’t get carried away in any relationship and take things slowly.

Rebound love is not always the way to disaster, but it is always advisable to take the steps cautiously. Get to know the person and then get involved. Heads over heel equation doesn’t work out all the time.