Pssst! Does your marriage have secrets? Every couple have their own set of ‘’arrangement” that makes their marriage roll on. But they will never tell you these tiny little secrets. Check out the facts about marriage that nobody wants to accept.
Marriage and Money
Ladies, have you ever hidden money from your partner? Well, as far as I know this is an age old practice that was been going from our grandmother’s age. The shape and form has changed over time. Our moms and grandmoms were mostly homemakers. So, when they got the monthly expenditure budget from their husbands they used to keep that little something aside that their men never came to know about. Today also we do just that but of course in a more diplomatic way. Now, it is our own salaries that are not completely revealed to our husbands so that we can have a little splurge of our own.
Want to Motivate your Man?
One easy way to define marriage is to get things done from your man. Sometimes, the polite requests don’t work. So, how to bribe him? Simple, offer some sexual favors and see your work done in a zap.
Strike a Deal
This is one more secret that no one likes to talk about. If we want something, we strike a deal. One of my friends, a staunch feminist took her husband’s name when she got married. The actual reason behind this…so struck a deal that she could name all her future children first and middle names. No questions asked! Who will be silly enough to skip this?
Private Moments…Without your Husband
Do you secretly smile, every time your husband nervously tells you he is out of town? Generally, we hear our girlfriends talk about how much they miss their husbands when he’s gone and how difficult and lonely it is without him. But the case may be something entirely different. When my husband is away, it gives me the peace of mind I felt when I lived alone. I watch what I want, eat dinner from a take away, clean house or maybe not. It’s the moment when suddenly I again become ‘me’.
