Are you one of those girls who like to wait for the guys to approach you and realize how great you are? Or you’re the one who don’t wait for a guy to realize how great and fantastic you are and make it impossible for him to resist you. Well if you come in this category then this article is just for you. Let’s get inside a man’s head and understand what he is really looking for in his ‘girl’.
Just Ask Questions
Most men take it for granted that girls simply just love talking about themselves. So you can bet he will be pleasantly surprised when you show interest in his life. Talk about his career or his dream project and see how he opens up to you. Your guy is going to be completely flattered and will also feel reassured that you can hold a conversation when the topic is not you.
Share a Secret
Telling a secret about yourself that is relatively harmless will help you establish an immediate connection with your guy. By sharing a secret you will let your man know how much you trust him, giving him a chance to be a part of your life.
Awkwardness is part of the Game
Every relationship will have its moments of awkwardness and embarrassments. It’s up to you how you handle the situation in a smart way. Things can be a bit embarrassing but it also gives you a chance to let your guard down and show him the real you. So instead of losing your cool when something unpleasant happens, think of it as a chance to show off your sense of humor and your ability to make fun of yourself.
Now Initiate the Second Day
You have successfully crossed day one and now is the right time to initiate day two to your man. Dangle the simple suggestion that you would love to see him once more. Give polite suggestions like ‘I would love to watch that movie, but all my friends have seen it.’ Your man is 100% going to understand your hint and your love life is going to start off.
So all the gals out there, don’t be a woman of 15th century and like a diva go and approach your guy heads on.
